Death in the family question?

Hello, there is something called priority in life, it is like a staircase, some steps come before some others. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that. you might wanna call some relatives and tell them that you cannot afford the money and that is the reason that you are not going to be able to make it to the funeral. Lemme tell you something, you are not rude, i bet you would have been there had the prices been lower, so yeah. By the way, i wish you my condolences. You might as well send them some cards and flowers and wait for the very next occasion to go and see them; when you can afford the money.